"Short-term missions tend to be like that: they come and completely take over the agenda, the programs, the life of the church. But that's not the way you visit a friend."
"In each of these churches (African churches) it's een important to find a bridging relationship-someone who comes in quietly, speaks slowly, is a good listener, and is trying to learn."
The first idea talks especifically about the people form the U.S. but it can still apply to us. Even most of us who live in Latin America don't know much information about the African countries, Asian countries, the Middle East, etc. We know they exist, we know there is poverty, death, persecution, but that is it. We do not show that sincere interest in them, we are more focused in our lives, and our culture, and our problems. We need to change this. We need to start to care more about them.
The other two ideas can be linked together. The first one shows how were are not supposed to be (doing things our way and controlling everything) and the second one shows how we are supposed to behave (listening and willing to learn). We can choose any of the two options and behave whoever we want, but if we choose option 2 and we go with a humble attitude and as a servant, our trip will succeed!
